Is the best way out then, When you decided to leave your husband, But the very word "divorce" is awakening your terror.
You can then apply to the District Court competent for your joint place of residence with a request for separation. If your husband also agrees to her, You must select, that this is your common conclusion.
If you don't have minor children (below 18 lat), The court's decision on separation is automatic. However, if you have them, The court may reject the application.
Then, when one of you demands separation, and the second one does not agree, You do not submit a request to the same court, but a claim for separation. The judges will determine, who is to blame for the breakdown. Will also decide, who would have parental authority. Will determine the amount of child support. As well as the way you use the apartment.
What about property?
When the separation is announced. And thus, You can share all this from that moment, what you got. However, separation has different legal effects than divorce. First of all, new marriages cannot be concluded. Separation does not have such a final and lasting effect. An application for its abolition can be submitted at any time. Mutual obligations do not expire either. The spouses must give themselves, for example. Help. In practice, this means, that each of you, If he is in trouble, may demand maintenance from the other side.
It's worth knowing about it! If one of the spouses demands separation, and the second divorce and the court will recognize, that the distribution of life between them is not only complete, but also lasting, The divorce will then rule.