That's true, that every age has its rights, that youth has to be brisk. Sometimes, however, adolescent children cross all nomas, sometimes they even get into a collision with the law. Can we prevent this?
More and more children (In addition, the age limit is still decreasing) is badly influenced by his colleagues. Unfortunately, It often happens, that even primary school students are in serious conflicts with the environment. Problems start ordinary with lies, neglect in science, fights or minor thefts. Worse, As a rule, parents cannot see in time, that their child is going on a bad path.
Why bad company tempts?
• O to, that the child was conflicted with the law, Parents usually accuse his colleagues, school. They talk about the lack of attractive proposals to spend free time or the negative influence of television. They often forget, that the child's character is just in a family home.
• Dziecko nie nauczy się odróżniać dobra od zła, If the father is happy. that he deceived the Tax Chamber, or mother does not hide the satisfaction of the fact, that the neighbor she did not like had a car bump.
• Rodzice, who are not a model for a child or even give him a bad example, they certainly have an impact on his negative behavior.
• Poza tym, If the child does not feel family warmth and the acceptance of his parents, He often looks for confirmation of his value outside the home.
Consider, which worries you in your child's behavior:
1 Avoids contacts with the family (Even with the closest one).
2 To the question, how it spent time, He sells you and he answers you arrogantly: "It's not your business!”.
3 He begins to wear supermodern and expensive clothes, it has such items, which he could not buy from "pocket money".
4 It stopped contacting my old colleagues. I don't want to approach the phone, When an old friend from school rings.
5 It has come out very much in science. You suspect too, that he often goes to truancy.
6 It became rude, You can hear more and more often, that he curses.
7 Neglects his current hobby (or even stopped being interested in anything).
8 Its external appearance (clothes, hairdo) has changed beyond recognition, And the current outfit and style of being can be associated with some youth group. Constant listens to the worrying music.
9 You have the impression, that he is hiding something, and even resorts to lies. He is more and more often outside the home, without following the designated hours of return.
10 You feel the smell of alcohol or cigarettes from him.